rant

[jeslowe115]

I'm so pissy right now it isn't funny. I spent all that time monday and tuesday trying to get the apartment looking a little better and by 9pm last night, you wouldn't be able to tell that I had anything done.

I will admit, it wasn't 100% (more like 75%) I figured that it would take no more than 2-3 hours (not counting laundry and any dishes that I would dirty this weekend) to finish cleaning. Well, now it's going to be 5-6 (hopefully).

I am so pissed that it seems like I did all the work and Aaron had no respect for it. I understand that taking care of Kaleb while I am work isn't the easiest thing in the world, but both nights when I got home from work, he was on the computer playing poker. I can't complain about him being on the internet, but I try to limit my time on the net to when I have everything done (or at least what I would like to get done at the time) and when Kaleb is sleeping.

Yes, he did make dinner while I was at work, but he left dirty dishes all over the kitchen and the counters and stove top needs to be cleaned. I wouldn't have minded the dirty dishes that much if they would have been in neat piles and the counters clean.

Plus anything that he had out in the living room, was left where he had it (playstation, magazines and dvds). I keep trying to tell him that he needs to pick up after himself because sooner than later kaleb is going to be getting into everything and it will just be easier if he leaves the stuff out. I had the living room picked up (all I needed to do was vacuum). Now I have to pick up before I can even think about that.

And I'm fixing to start throwing his clothes away if I have to pick them up out of the floor anymore. I set the laundry sorter up in the hall after rearranging the bedroom and I keep a basket in the bedroom too, but yet his laundry can't find at least 1 of the 2 things.

Then, last weekend, he told me that he would help me work on the nursery. Well, that was like pulling teeth. I would tell him that I am going in there. I would start and wait to see if he would come and help (Kaleb was sleeping in our room so that wasn't a reason why he wasn't helping). I finally gave up on his help and just started working on it myself. I have made it pretty far. I have 2 boxes that need to go to other rooms (which I plan on taking care of this weekend). Then there are 3 more boxes that need to be gone through and there are 2 piles of things that need to go to storage (which Aaron said that he was going to take 1 of them Wednesday, but that never happened). Once I get the stuff down to storage, it should be a lot better.

We took the bassinet down Wednesday night and I got it ready to go to mini storage. It felt odd taking it down, but I knew that it was time to do that as we don't use it (Kaleb's too big for it) and it was just taking up space. Now if I can just get Aaron to take that stuff to mini storage, it will make the nursery that much closer to being done.

I'm just sick of feeling like I bust my ass to get things looking respectable and he doesn't lift a finger to help. I don't know what to do to get him to change either. I've tried asking, complaing, not saying anything, not doing anytying and it just doesn't do anything. I'm getting to the point where I can't take much more of it and I don't have the time to do it myself all the time. I feel like a fucking servant, not a loving wife anymore.

Well, I am done ranting for the time being. I'm sure that some of this is also due to the fact that I am PMSing (or at least I think I am- the shot has really messed up my cycle).

Comments

[janke.livejournal.com]

We've got a bunch of them that are teachers in the district that we went to. Which is kinda scary because I wouldn't trust some of them with any kids of mine. LOL!

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

I hear you there. A couple of them from my class I wouldn't have a problem with but one of them was like the biggest airhead in the high school. I don't know how she managed to even get though college sometimes.

[janke.livejournal.com]

We've got one of them. During high school we referred to her as the blonde bimbo bitch. Or just Miss Piggy. Because her nose was smashed up like a pigs. She was my best friend at one point but she's just a bitch that uses ppl for her own personal gain. But someone how they allowed her to teach 7th grade science at our middle school. I don't know how THAT happened.

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

She must have known the right people. I know our "class hoochie"- I'm being nice is teaching 6th grade reading and english. I know when we were in school, she wasn't the brightest light bulb, she would rather party and play sports.

[janke.livejournal.com]

That's these ppl that are now teaching, the only thing I hope is that when they went to college they got their heads on straight and realized that partying and not doing school work wasn't going to work for the rest of their lives. I hope. LMAO!

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

I know. The girl I was talking about ended up having a baby in college, so that might have helped her set her priorities straight (at least we can hope it did).

[janke.livejournal.com]

It's amazing how something so simple as having a child changes everything.

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

I know. If I didn't have Kaleb, I would be done with my associates already and I wouldn't be having problems with wal-mart because I wouldn't have as many constraints on my schedule. But I wouldn't trade him for anything in the world.

[janke.livejournal.com]

Some ppl think of kids as the biggest burden. But they are the greatest joy in your life. And until you have one, some ppl just don't realize this. I may not have kids but I've been lucky enough to experience the whole thing through my friend Bonnie and her kids.

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

That is so true. Yeah, my life is more difficult with Kaleb, but I will never trade him for anything.

[janke.livejournal.com]

Awwww, I want kids.....

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

I wish I could do more to help you out. I just don't know what to say.

[janke.livejournal.com]

LOL!

It's ok, there isn't much you can do for me. :-)

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

I know. I guess all I can say is wait. Your time will come.

[janke.livejournal.com]

Yup, that's basically it.

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

Too bad there isn't any fast forward button to make it go faster.

[janke.livejournal.com]

Yeah, but then you'd want to rewind back all the time when he gets too old. LMAO! And you can't do that. LMAO!

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

I know. I'm not talking about Kaleb. I was talking about for you to find a man faster.

[janke.livejournal.com]

Oh! LOL! I'm blending conversations together. LMAO!

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

LOL. Don't feel bad with as many as we have going on.

[janke.livejournal.com]

For real. I'm usually good at getting the idea of what we are talking about, by the email. But sometimes I have to go back and look at the rest of the comments to remember. LMAO!

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

LOL. That is so me most of the time too, especially when there are more than 1 comment from them in day because I tend to forget what post I am on.

[janke.livejournal.com]

And some of the posts that we are commenting on are months old. LMAO! So I haven't even seen the post in forever. LMAO!

[jwood614.livejournal.com]

I know. Same here. I wonder what some of the comment counts are on these posts.

[janke.livejournal.com]

I can check on mine. Some are over the 100 mark. LMAO! Well at least the older posts. LMAO!