Well, I guess Aaron falls into the latter category. I have been polite, I've told him how I feel, I've put it in writing, I've asked, I've been bribed and begged when the earlier attempts were not working.

I don't know what do anymore. It seems like I can get him to start to help for 1-3 days, but then he goes to work and when he comes home, it's back to square one.

And the stranger thing of it all, is at work they are responsible for keeping the base clean. He is always complaining about how one of his coworkers doesn't pull their weight when it comes to cleaning. I tell him that is how I feel at home, but it doesn't ever sink into his head.